The ADHD Evening Routine (that actually gets you to sleep)
Many ADHD brains have delayed circadian rhythm — melatonin fires late and dopamine finally fires at night. This routine builds boredom deliberately.
The routine
- 10-5 minScreens-off alarm
One alarm 60 min before bed. Ruthless.
- 25-15 minBrain dump
Write everything in your head onto paper. Empties open loops.
- 315-20 minSet tomorrow's One Thing
Pick tomorrow's first task now — future-you won't.
- 420-30 minBoring wind-down
Same 3 things every night. Boredom is the sleep cue.
- 530-40 minWarm shower + dim light
Body temp drop after a warm shower triggers melatonin.
- 640-45 minIn bed, book only
No phone. Book with slow prose. Fiction beats non-fiction.
Instead of / try
Turn this routine into 2-minute steps
Spark opens each step at the right time, on your phone, with a visible timer. No planning, no willpower.
FAQ
I'm most creative at night — do I really have to shut down?
Capture the ideas in your brain dump. They'll still be there tomorrow. The sleep debt won't be.
Should I take melatonin?
Talk to a doctor. Small doses timed 3-4 hours before bed can help ADHD delayed rhythm — but timing matters more than dose.
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One 10-minute reset a day, one category pass a week, and no expectation of a full clean. Fixed, short and repeatable beats thorough. The goal is preventing the pile-up that becomes unstartable, not achieving a clean house on any given day.