Why do I lose things with ADHD?
You put objects down during a task switch, and the moment of putting down never gets encoded into memory. The fix is homes and habits, not attention: one fixed place per essential item, and a doorway drop zone you use every single time.
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The moment you put it down
Your keys are in your hand while your mind is already three steps ahead. The hand acts, the brain doesn't record it. Later there's no memory to search because none was ever created.
One home per essential item
Keys, wallet, phone, glasses — each gets exactly one place, and the place is on the route you already walk. Fixed homes remove the memory requirement entirely.
The doorway drop zone
A bowl or hook right where you enter. Everything from your pockets goes there before anything else happens. It works because it's tied to a location, not to remembering.
Related questions
Do trackers help?+
Yes, for the big four. But they're a safety net — the drop zone does the actual work.
Why does it get worse when I'm stressed?+
Stress narrows working memory further, so even fewer moments get encoded.
What about things I use rarely?+
Group them by category in labelled boxes. Searching a labelled category beats searching a house.
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